Sunday, March 05, 2006

JB "游记"

哈哈! 标题会写"游记"是因为真的不懂要放什么了,可是等下的内容又是关于我回jb时所发生的事,所以.......请大家原谅我的词穷 :p

嗯~其实这次回jb的最主要原因是我妹,因为她在拜六有一场班聚,她想回去,then我又想到我可以趁机做我的case study还有去看很久没有看的团员,所以就决定和她一块儿回了。结果,case study 是做了,可是有点随便,因为没有很多时间观察我的subject, nv mind 啦,有东西写就可以了 :p

至于团嘛~~嗯.... 因为在回去之前,就听说了一个非常惊人的消息,所以非常确定一定要回去了解情况。事情是这样的,今年的行政会少了曹长,而曹长是整个行政会的领袖,所以对我而言,少了曹长绝对是件很严重的事,更何况听说连排长也没有,非常糟糕,整个行政会的结构简直是乱七八糟,所以绝对需要去了解状况。结果呢?果然如我所猜测,是因为原定的曹长人选递上了辞职信,而且还附上了家长的信,而团目前又还没有第二个适合的曹长人选,所以团长只好委屈自己,暂时带领着行政会, 至于排长也是因为没有适合的人选。唉!我想这也是没有办法中的办法吧~~ 听了之后,觉得还可以接受,而且团长也说会在4月之前选出人选,所以应该暂时没有问题吧??随便啦,反正该问得我都问了,该给意见的我也给了,剩下的就靠他们了,我真得没有什么可以做了,就让他们自己发挥吧!!

很快的,我就快要回到kl乐。结果,可恨的是,让我遇到了好几样非常讨厌的事。首先,就买了黄牛票啊。可是这也还好,反正刚好最近汽油起价了嘛,刚好又是礼拜天,所以给他们RM30我还没怎样。可是巴士开得很慢,还在永平停了一个小时,then, 在pudu又塞车,结果我坐一点多的车,竟然也要七点多才回到宿舍,真的是有累到咯!

反正这就是我这次回jb所遇到的事了.........

Thursday, March 02, 2006

最近都很烦!!! :(

嗯~ 该如何说呢?? 一切的事情都不晓得为何要发生在这几个礼拜!!真的很显!

首先,我本来都在很懊恼功课的事情了,因为很多很多功课要开始做,然后很多都是要先去做observation 或 survey 有一样还是要先看movie,才能写review,真的已经有很多东西都要开始弄了,不然就真的会交白卷!! 当然,虽然这些事情都很琐碎,可是我还是可以苦中作乐,因为在那些过程中还是可以遇多很多有趣的事。就好像那天为了做survey 去了mid valley,(有点回到卖报纸的那段日子,因为都是开口要求人帮忙,有点怀念)结果发现启业是印度人的朋友,秀芳是马来人的朋友,哈哈!还有一件事该说有趣吗,还是可惜吗?我也不肯定,你们自己判断好了。那就是在这过程中,我们发现马来人比较容易和我们合作帮我们做我们的survey,then印度人是最难沟通的,启业说所以那些guard都是印度人,哈哈!华人嘛,也没有很好,,反正对我们最好的就是马来人了,奇怪吧?? 嘻嘻~

然后,又为了其中一个lecturer, dr.tee的事情感到很烦恼。因为这个lecturer非常注重说我们的learning style, 他非常希望我们全班都使用deep learning来上他的class, 我不是反对他这样做,可是他expect我们在这个semester马上学会,这是没有可能的事吧,对我们这种习惯用surface learning 来学习的人类来说,绝对是不可能的事!! then, 还有一件事让我们很无奈的是,这堂课是psychology research method 2嘛,我们这一batch的人都还没有拿过psychology research method 1,因为之前他都告诉我们说,这两科是没有连接性的,所以我们都很放心的拿,然后问题在哪里呢??? 问题就在dr.tee在课堂上的每一句话都是assume我们都拿过了prm1, 所以........ 唉!不懂啦!! 反正上这堂课上到很痛苦就是了,有时还真的不想上他的课!!!因为真的听不懂,而非常讨厌的是,不懂的东西有时是可以问的,可是这个偏偏就不知该从何问起,也不是很懂我到底不懂什么,很烦就是了!!!

then, 更让我烦上加烦的是我在kl住的这间屋子的家事。之前,有一位housemate因为家里经济的问题,所以离开了,所以我妹才可以和我住一起,可是,后来,幸运之神降临在这位housemate的身上,有位贵人愿意帮助他完成学业,所以,他回来了。其实,这应该是件很开心的事。可是问题就来了,如果他还是要跟我们住一起的话,就要重新安排房间的事。这也应该是件很简单的事,如果大家都相处得很好的话。重点就在于,我们当中有一个人很得人憎!因为他是一个很爱自己的人,很多事他都只注意到自己,这也罢了,他又不愿意帮忙做家务,这也算了,他连自己的房间也不愿意帮忙!! 然后,他宁可让垃圾放在那边生虫,也没有帮手把它丢去外面,让垃圾车收!还有,他也经常不经人同意用他人的东西,而且用的理所当然!!所以,没有人再愿意和他住同一间房。

那天,我们就在她不在的情况下,讨论了一下最好的分房方法,就是他搬下楼下,其他人在楼上,因为楼下那间房只可以给一个人睡,既然没有人愿意和他同房,这是最好的方法。然后,我们就问他的意愿,结果他很直接,而且用了让我很生气的语气说他不愿意,也不懂有什么很好的方法!就这样.... 我非常生气地说了一段话,大意是说,为什么要一直讲我不懂有什么方法,凡是一定会有解决的方法的啊!如果再这样下去的话,很简单的,我和我妹搬走!酱一切好办!全部人被我吓倒,因为他们第一次看到我发飚!然后,冷静了一下后,我就决定我搬下去楼下和我妹挤~因为这是唯一当时最好的方法了。那天就暂时这样定下来。

隔天,其他人在和另一个朋友nicholas提起这件事的时候,始终觉得我们两姐妹很委屈,(我们并不这么觉得啦,其实)所以决定再讨论过。很好笑的是,nicholas 还说什么要保护我们两个妹妹,然后我就说是不是要认他做干哥了,可是,思前想后,都不觉得他像我哥,所以作罢!其中一个housemate,晓君还说如果我叫他哥的话,她就要喊我妈了!哈哈!因为真的难以想象~~反正,事情到此地步,已经算是闹大了。我不懂他们打算怎么办,所以很烦,就是了,不懂他们为什么非要把事情弄得这么复杂~~ 唉!!

好彩,事情现在总算有了一个好的结果,不然我看不久我的白发就要开始快乐的生长了。唉!说会好的结果吧,那位得人憎的housemate终于在一番调教还是应该说大审问之下,我也不太清楚谈话内容,因为我早就去和周公约会了:P,反正其他人为了这件事,弄到早上五点多才入睡,厉害咧!当然不包括我在内,不然我看我肯定跨~ 说会正题,在那次之后,他终于肯悔改,之前他都一直装傻,(我是酱觉得啦)反正因为她的愿意悔改,原来和他已同住的人决定再和他住住看,所以事情圆满解决了。 现在!可是,之前的我简直烦到不行~

显啊!!!!!!!!!!! 好彩,这件事情有落幕的时候,不然..........................

Tuesday, February 21, 2006

初恋 & 老婆

初恋总是宝贵的,令人难忘的。
遗憾的是,十有八九的初恋,都不能成为婚姻。
因为不能成为婚姻,初恋又显得更为宝贵,让人回味无穷。

阿伟是一位成功的外科医生,和太太结婚二十年,儿子已入大学。

在一次大学旧生会,重遇初恋情人Alice。
Alice,当年是众男生的梦中情人,公认的美人儿。
就是现在,仍比实际年龄漂亮年轻。

当年,为了一个误会,再加两人的自尊心特强,就这样分开了。
后来,Alice去了外国,阿伟留在香港。

初恋的夭折,一度令阿伟痛苦不已,几乎垮了,
幸亏得一位护士同事的关心和鼓励,令他终于走出感情低谷,
重拾心情,这位女同事就成了他的太太。

不料二十年后重逢Alice。

那晚,他们谈了很多,解除了误会,
只是,大家都已人到中年!

次日,
Alice打电话邀阿伟去浅水湾酒店烛光晚餐,
阿伟问, [是不是请我太太一起去?]
Alice回答,[我只想请你一个人,我们已失却太多时光,现在是弥补的时候。]

[对不起,除了因公事,晚上我一般不单独外出吃晚饭。]
[你不是怕老婆吧?] Alice 讥讽他。
[我怕老婆!] 他直认不韦。[我好怕不自觉地令她不开心。]

几日后,Alice 又特地让速递公司送来一封信,
信封上写明要他亲启,并且注明: only for you!

阿伟将信原封退回。

[本来,我会让太太也看这封信的,既然你不希望她看,我也不看了。我已习惯与她分享生活中的一切喜怒哀乐。]

Alice 很不忿气。

她见过阿伟的太太,已中年发福,且不擅修饰,像个屋村师奶,
相反,自己比实际年龄要年轻得多,风韵犹存。

当年阿伟追她追得这样热烈,他不可能对她失去feeling的,一定是阿伟的太太凶神恶煞。

她一不做二不休,当下亲身到他诊所去。

[阿伟,你只需讲yes or no。你仍对我有feeling吗?你还爱我吗?你以前是十分爱我的。]

阿伟只笑笑。

[爱一个人与恨一个人同样需要精力和能力。
感情过去了,应该无爱无恨,古人说,一笑泯恩仇。
让已过去的,无法改变的事实影响目前,根本毫无好处。
我已将我的全部爱分给我的家人,
而且,我已过了这种玩浪漫感情的年纪了。]

Alice 仍不死心。

[你真的爱你太太?还是仅出于一种义务和责任?赛过当年对我那份初恋之情?]

[我是医生,我相信一种科学说法,
真正的爱只能维持十个月,正好是由胚胎到婴儿哇哇出世所需的时日。

这或许要从生物进化的角度来解释。

但爱不同爱情,爱,或许只是一种由荷尔蒙分泌而激发出的感情反应,
一如我受伤会流泪,开心会微笑,是一种很生物式的感情反应。

用一个不合适的比喻,
雄性动物在追求异性时,毛会特别亮丽,叫声也特别悦耳
爱,只是一种行为,动物也懂得用舔触等动作表示“爱”,
然而,唯有爱情,才是人类独有的能力。

一个情字,令人类爱的行为,变得成熟,深沉,有一种单一的行为上升为一种情怀。

我很怀念我们的初恋,但我更珍惜我和太太的婚姻, 珍惜我们一起走过的这段路。]

阿伟的思路非常清晰,不愧为一位名医生。

他十分明白,当初,在他感情最低谷,最消沉时,是现在的太太给他温暖,唤起他的信心。

后来,太太省吃俭用,自己带着儿子独守空巢,支持阿伟外出留学深造。
这二十来年,是太太伴他走过来的。

太太全心于这个家上,无心顾及自己的仪容、衣着。
她将每一分一秒,都发在家人身上。
而且,太太属于那种生活低调,安于做男人背后的女人那种类型。

阿伟不想太太为了他而刻意改变自己,做她不喜欢做的事。
因为爱她,他也尊重她,由她选择她自己喜欢的生活方式。

[我们互相看着白发开始萌生,皱纹出现。
因为这后面包含着许多只有我们两人知道的故事,
孩子的出世,我们第一间屋的乔迁,双方父母病故的哀痛,我们升职,她的一次有惊无险的大手术......
点点滴滴都写在她和我的皱纹上,也只有她和我才懂得。

至于你,Alice,我很怀念那段我们花样的年华,
但我不会用我现在幸福充实的家庭生活去交换那段时日的延续,这只有百害而无一利。

如果我们都珍惜我们的初恋,珍惜这次难得的二十年后的重逢,我们就这样互相握手、互道“珍重”吧!]

Alice 听了这番话,默默拥抱了阿伟,转头就走。

人说,苍蝇不叮无缝的蛋。
今天婚外情,一夜情泛滥,但这绝成不了你忽略她、冷淡她的理由。
珍惜你与她一起走过的路,如是你对她的爱,会如醇酒,愈陈旧愈香。

应该是朋友寄给我的mail吧.... 看了之后感触很深。这世上真的会有那么醒目,那么明白自己心情的男人吗?如果真的是这样,我想拿现在的离婚率,婚外情还有一夜情发生的机率都会几乎趋近于零吧!然而,事实告诉我们不是。就想到那天跟我uni的朋友,佩佩讨论到其实女生会那么喜欢追偶像剧,除了看帅哥(很难否认这个事实,呵呵~),我想最大的原因也是因为偶像剧里有很多很多在这真实的世界里很难可以遇上,甚至机会等于零的超好男主角吧!(有时男配角也不赖)毕竟,虽然说人生如戏,戏如人生,然而,残酷的事实也告诉了我们戏始终还是会有虚构,而这虚构,也不是说要翻印在生活里就能翻印的了的。所以,很明显,“纯属虚构,翻印必究”指的是翻版商。(哈哈~有没有冷到一下?)当然,因为我是女的,所以很自然,我是从女生的角度来看待这件事。无可否认,偶像剧里的女主角也很难可以在现实里遇见,可是,男生迷偶像剧的例子还是颇少的吧!所以,想把他们列在考量范围之外!哈哈!男生,不要打我.....

最后,想跟所有在看这篇部落格的男生朋友说,学学这位故事中的男主角,时时警惕自己,在未来的婚姻路上,时时想起你老婆跟你一同共患难,共享福的回忆吧!不要轻易为了一个莫名其妙、突如其来的邂逅而迷乱,而犯错,而破坏了你与她共同建立的家。小心 谨慎

Sunday, February 05, 2006

mY Chinese New Year......

在过年除夕前,我就和理三的同学去吃了团圆饭,就在皇后的长青火锅店。那天,终于看到了几位久违了的朋友,像是从苏州回来的泽彪,一直在新山,却没机会见面的秀美,俊豪,很久没有露面的梦玲,老大,当然还有其他人,虽然人数不多,但还是很开心。毕竟能像这样和大家的聚会也不知道还有几次,总而言之,值得珍惜就是了。还有,谢谢尚贤,不辞劳苦来百万镇载我。谢谢!

终于到了除夕夜,下午我和我的姑姑到附近的Jusco买了几瓶葡萄酒,准备晚上和大家一块儿喝。在大伯,阿伦哥哥,阿妮姐姐到了之后,团圆饭就开饭了!和往年一样,我们小孩子和大人分开坐。吃饱喝足后,我们就继续对着“四方箱”,也这才发现原来阿伦哥哥很爱张柏芝。因为不管我们转到哪一个频道,只要有张柏芝,他都会毫不犹豫地说要看这波。后来,我弟像看英文片,godzilla,他也不愿意,还说华人就该看华语的电影,结果,被我弟,还有两个堂妹洗到白白,最后弄到他要搬救兵,爷爷婆婆是也。当然啦,没什么作用就是了。没办法,谁叫他用英文和他姐姐谈天,还发表伟论说要看华语片,没有身体力行嘛!当然招架无力咯!嗯,我当然只是隔岸观火,免得遭受池鱼之殃。这群人,不得小看。

年初一,拿红包的日子到了。我伯母早在除夕晚上已经声明任何人都必须叫他才可以拿红包。这是传统,也是礼貌,我的爷爷当然首肯。结果哪里知道,就在这一天,发生了一件趣事。我四叔的两个儿子向来没有称呼长辈的习惯,所以我伯母的声明也是针对他们两个。而那两个人,别说小的,还小嘛,就说大的,阿升,叫是叫了,可是很小声, 我伯母不满意,所以就叫他叫大声一点,谁知道,这个时候他的眼泪就跟我飙出来了。所以咯,他没有红包可以拿,还连累了他的弟弟。唉!真是那他没办法。

下午,我们又浩浩荡荡的去看电影,“霍元甲”。我们三姐弟,我姑姑和小叔,阿祥哥哥,阿蓉姐姐,阿兴,阿珽,阿滢,阿明还有阿升十一个人就在CS的电影院欣赏这部电影。还蛮不错的,说教寓意占全剧很大部分。主要是声明,武术,没有分派别,竞赛,也只是为了互相切磋,取长补短,更重要的是,在过程中,战胜最强的敌人,自己!还有,凡是不要做得太绝,要留有余地给他人,也给自己。

年初二,我伯母一家人就回关丹了,剩下阿祥哥哥。下午,又是我们三姐弟,阿升,我姑姑和小叔,还有阿祥哥哥到新开的tebrau jusco逛逛。本来想看另一部电影的,可是时间太迟,只好作罢。可是,我们还是找到了另一个打发时间的地方,那就是到那儿的“红盒子”唱k,哈哈!可是,只有我们姐妹俩,还有阿祥哥哥有这个兴致。所以,其他人先回去了。留下我们3个人在那儿唱个痛快!而且,幸运的,刚好阿祥哥哥在年初一时发了一笔横财,所以咯,当然是他请客!哈哈~省了一笔

年初三,本来要开始做功课的了,可是,刚好我妹的朋友要来我家吃火锅,为了不要让他们不好意思,所以我们的晚餐又在我婆婆家解决,唉!所以,功课的计划只好延后了。

年初四,开始开工了!唉!功课复杂的要命!做到我晕晕.......
接下来的日子,都在功课中度过。所以,那天,没办法去班拜了。有点难过,本来想偷懒,跟你们一起去的,可是还真的是放不下我的功课,只好作罢!好难过哦!我妈还很好奇,我会酱好,不去拜年! 唉!没办法啦!!!! :(

终于,到了星期六,我爸说要在我们姐妹俩上去,所以这天就出发回吉隆坡了。

又要开始努力 打战了!

在还没结束之前,祝大家 新年快乐 万事如意 心想事成 拍拖的甜甜蜜蜜 还未拍拖的早日找到如意郎君(妹) 最重要的就是 身体健康 最后 狗年行大运咯!! (哈哈!好像有点像综艺节目的开场白)^^

Tuesday, January 24, 2006

我的hoUseMate入院....

actually, this incident happened when i was sleeping soundly.... (red face ^^)

incidents happenen when the housemate has just came back from 喝茶with her friends, when she was resting in her room, she felt painful in her 胃。then after that, she went to the toilet, unfortunately, many many bloods were vomitted.... aiz, very horrible, fortunately, i dun need to witness this

then, her bf came fetch her go to the hospital, she vomitted bloods again in the hospital...... aiz, made me so worry abt her....

anyway, she has gone back to jb, her father coming to kl in a few hours after he heard that she is incharged into the hospital (is it rite?), very worrying abt his daughther........

hope tat she can learn a lesson, cos be4 tat she dun really eat sth nutritious, can learn to more take care of herself liao..........

mY PaRt tiMe jOb in KL.....

mmm...... tat day accompany my cousin sister to go for an interview at sri petaling. "unfortunately", i was interviewed as well. the result is that we need to be tested for few days be4 we were officially employed.

since i'm not very sure tat i'm going to take this job, cause it is a job promoting fruit wine to ppl. so i din go to work on tat fri. but i did go to work on the next day, sat n sun. however, there are some problem occured on these two days, first is that the previous two promoters were not informed that they need not to work anymore, so we were asked to go home. the next day, is the problem of the management of carrefour, they din accept us to wear singlet inside, so, we face the same fate, going home.......... ^^

however, last fri, sat n sunday, we finally got the chance to work liao. on fri, cause my cousin are not free so i went to work alone. overall, it's quite okay actually. and yeah, i met 云姐 tat day, she also bought a pack of that wine from me. (one pack got 4 flavour inside) i totally sold 3 packs and 5 bottles tat day only....

on sat, i went there with my cousin liao, this day, i worked at diff place as fri, is at cheras carrefour. this day not so much surprising things, but we overall sold out 25 packs and 14 bottles tat day, quite happy with tat, cause we are worried abt we went there for a whole day with selling out few packs only.... but luckily the sum is quite okay......

on sun, is the same routine as sat. but there are diff things happen today.... one is that i met one of the "spy" that watched us if we get "eat snake" or not in the staff room.... mmm.... tat situation is quite amusing, cause although i'm awared that he is the "spy", but i dun think he want us know so clearly tat he is one of the staffs there.........anyway, it's really really very amusing........ : ) since that day is our last day working there, the other ppl tat we met there, they are in charge of promoting other beer, like carlsberg, tiger and kampai, change tel no and email add... then we hv a lot of fun after tat some like we 互相抢生意.... etc

tat's all my experience working part time in kl.....

Friday, January 20, 2006

a biRth oF a BabY.........

on wed, when i have cls on lifespan development, becoz we are going to discuss how a baby is formed and after that his or her birth, my lecturer invited a guest speech to have a talk with us, and the guest speecher is actually my m'sian studies's lecturer, who has just gave birth a baby few months ago. she share her experience while having her baby in her stomach and while she was going to give birth her baby.

she told us that the first two months actually had no special things happen, but after came to the 3rd month, she started to vomit and din really have the apetite to eat things. and she told us that mothers must be very careful in these months coz the brain of the baby is developed during these times, after 5 months, things became better, she could eat things liao, and yeah, she said that she can feel the baby is scracthing and kicking her, forgot the reason liao, but she did tell us why.... (red face....) and till 8 months, she said that mother should be extra more careful coz baby can still have chance to die even the baby is already 8 month liao.....

then finally, she felt the constraction liao, this mean that the baby is going to come out liao, but when she was sent to the hospital, the doctor still asked her to wait, becoz they need to wait her canal (forgot the real word liao, but some sort like tat) to open wider, or else the baby couldnt come out..... this waiting time cost 12 hrs more!!! oh my god, she struggling with the painful within these hours leh...... finally finally, the doctor said that she can push the baby out liao, with her all energy left after 12 hrs waiting, the baby finally came out after half an hour....

mmm.... actually, after heard her experience, me quite afraid to give birth liao, but i can feel my lecturer's happiness, especially after saw her son's pic, a cute baby boy, i think my lecturer never regret bah, since she has been gifted by allah (she is a muslim) a baby......

Monday, January 16, 2006

Some thoughts after reading friend's blog

嗯...在看了朋友的部落格之后,突然有些感想...

朋友在部落格中说到,忘记/放下(此后简单说成忘记好了)一个喜欢或暗恋的人其实也没有很难,当然他强调这并不代表你没有想象中喜欢她/他,也不是说你冷血,他认为要忘记一个人只需要催化剂,就好像一种化学物质需要催化剂的作用才能和另一种化学物质产生反应一样,在催化剂的作用下,忘记一个人就变得容易许多,是这样吗? 存在着很多疑问...也许,无可否认的,时间是最好的催化剂,然而,时间的长短也因人而异,忘记一个人真的这么容易吗? 对不起,不是故意质疑你的话,只是我还是觉得,忘记一个人没有很容易,也没有很难。

难在于,你对这么一个人所付出的感情并不是这么容易就可以收回来,跟覆水难收的道理是一样的,尤其是你的感情已经付出了这么长的时间下更是难上加难;容易,是当你知道这一个人已经很幸福的时候,你已经没有插手的余地的时候,你已经是多余的时候,你已经彻悟的时候,一切,似乎已经变得不再那么重要的时候...... 还是,这一切就是所谓的催化剂了呢??????

感情,果然就是难以理解,难怪没有一个确切的理论能够讲解“感情”这回事...........

就像讲师说的,人是很难理解的动物,而我,却也选择了这条路,也许,是我真得太好奇了吧.....所以才会选择了这条不归路,但,我现在确定的是,我不曾后悔!!!!!

Friday, January 13, 2006

Worrying.........

haiz, i'm quite stressed last week, it all started when my PRM2 lecturer, Dr.Tee gave us some reading assignment. since we all dun hv any textbk yet, so we are forced to find some reading materials online. still, the topic he gave us are too broad that there are abt 100,000++ relevant website can be found, yet me and my friends dun really noe which most suit the topic he gave, so we like headless flies flying here and there..... anyway, tat thing has settled, and i and one of the friends, jesslyn had a talk with the lecturer, after that, i felt better and not so stressed liao, yet, i think this semester is quite hard, coz the subject is quite difficult and there are many people superior than me, sigh.... hope tat i can safely get throught this sem.....

tat's one thing tat i'm worried abt, my study. still, there is another friend who i'm now quite worry abt her. she is having relationship problem, moreover, her problem is quite complicated, me and my friends all support her, and said that if let us see the guy, we definitely will beat him.... cos he harm our friends so deep that neither him nor us can understand de.... quite sad..... cos felt tat actually my friends dun really need to be harmed like this way, she has so many choices, aiz, why she still want to drown inside??? it's totally not worth!!!!!! aiz, now i could only hope tat she can do a right decision, in my opinion, leaving tat heartless guy!!! and she can grow up in dealing this kind of things, cos she is too emotional in this kind of things....... maybe she needs to be more rational.........
great wishes for her.............................

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Saturday, January 07, 2006

some thoughts after watching some drama.....

mmm... thought to write it down in chinese, since i'm better with tat. but thinking tat i'm taking expo writing this sem, maybe i should get use writing in eng. or else, my result will be very suck......

talking abt the dramas, first is the japanese one, good luck, acted by 木村拓哉, it talks abt a life of a pilot, quite like this drama cos it taught us many things, especially it taught us tat we should never give up our dreams easily. like in the drama, 木村拓哉 once has a very serious injury on his leg after he attempted to save his senior tat he cannot longer be a pilot according to the doctor. however, becoz the needs of the plot, 木村拓哉 of cos will not give up like tat, he took a surgery which i dun think it really exists in real life, if i dun remember wrong, the surgery involve breaking his bone of the leg and link(or connected or some other words?) them together again including his nerves, quite diff isnt it? but still, in the drama, the surgery succeed and after doing some physical theraphy, he get well again n finally have the chance to pursue his dream again. so, i realised tat there will always be many obstacles in pursuing my dreams still i need to be strong to fight over them. of cos need to more practical la, unlike the amazing surgery in the drama. ^^

another one, also is japanese, 白色巨塔, acted by 唐泽寿明 and 江口洋介. this drama is actually quite good in talking abt the real life in the society, abt how ppl fight to become a famous and rich and powerful person, of cos in an unappropriate way, like bribing others etc. anything they also can do. still, since there is a bad guy in the drama, there will always be a good guy, in this drama, this good guy is a person tat who just concern abt how to treat cancer and everything he does is always for the patients' benefit. of, forgot to say liao, this drama is talking abt doctors' life in japan. becoz i realised tat there's somehow many differences compare to our country's. however, after watching the whole drama, i dun really think tat the bad guy is very bad at all, wat his fault is just tat he too concerns abt the 名利, he actually also concerns abt his patients, and of coz he like the good guy, always try hard to cure cancer's patients. mmm.... maybe this is the real life. everyone has his or her own choices to play wat kind of character in life, but tat doesnt mean he or she are like tat, he or she just different from most of us who choose to play the character tat most accepted by the society...... real life is terrible rite? dun really noe who is good or who is bad..... sigh............................... : (
dun really like the thought abt it.... aiz.......... but still like this drama cos it woke me up from my dreams tat everything will be wonderful and beautiful in life... stupid ho me to think like tat........

last one, is taiwanese, 恶魔在身边, acted by 贺军翔 and 杨丞琳. mmm... quite like this drama also, cos it somehow unlike the other love dramas just talking abt love but it also tell us abt other things.... quite like the friendship between the characters, seems like they all understand and trust each other, mmm... quite rare in reality, isnt it?? there will always be misunderstanding in real life, more difficult to have a strong bond to each other.... also envy the kinship in the drama, they are so close tat they can tell secret to each other, this will nv happen to me, dun really know why, but i definitely will keep my secrets forever in my heart.... maybe to protect myself ba....... as for the love between two main characters, i respect them cos both of them have tried hard to protect their love and not to harm the ppl around them at least not very seriously.......

to end all, still like japanese drama who always inspire me to hv new thought abt life. still, some taiwanese 偶像剧 also quite nice as long as they din talk abt love all the time and trying to prolong the plots, tat will be nice for me.

finally, this will be the end of my post. eng still has to improve but there are some words i just cant translate it into eng, so forgive me to mix it with some chinese words.

Friday, January 06, 2006

finally, a long long holiday ends liao....

yeap, my 2 month's holiday finally end at 3rd of jan.

this year is quite different from last year. first is tat i'm not longer a freshly graduate student from secondary school, second is tat this sem will be my last sem of my first year, yet i take most of the subject of year 2 since they din offer the subject of year 1 tat i can take, finally is tat my sis is coming along my uni to study accountant, as a result, from this sem onwards, my sis would stay with me, study with me, n i have an accompany tat i trust with me throughtout the days.

when i go to uni on the first day of open school, i finally met with my friends in uni again, quite a long time din see them already, they have slightly changer no matter in physical or mental. like anna, has become more thinner than before to a trend that not healthy at all, and pei pei also has a ring on her tongue, jess and siew fong although have no obvious changes on their appearance, but i do noe tat they also have changed in some way, just tat i hvnt observed it only. quite miss them when i'm in jb, no matter how, they are my best friends in uni. n quite happy tat we attend cls together again.

and for my science3's friends, after the trip to kukup, i nv had a chance to meet u ever, however, u all will be always in my heart, n i'll miss u guys.

about the course tat i take this sem, is quite interesting except expository writing n malaysian studies, they are quite bored in some way. as for another three subjects are quite fun, but wat i'm worried now is tat most of the clsmates are older than me, since they are mostly in year two already, except my friends, fear tat i could not obtain a good result becoz i think they are very strong. so, maybe i will need to work harder to reach my expectations. bless me.....

Monday, December 26, 2005

Miscellaneous.....

好久没有post我的部落格了.....不好意思....今天就来总括一下我的近况吧.....

在上次的post之后,我和我的弟妹,堂妹,表弟还有堂哥一块儿去看了电影,Narnia, 还蛮不错的啦,我是这么觉得啦,看了电影之后,就去唱K了。在厢房的时候,我的弟弟还一直在那边搞怪,很好笑。在这之前,还有几段小插曲,第一,本来我们想直接就在neway唱的,可是因为我的弟弟没有学生证,又碰巧他高过了那个柜台,所以不能算学生的价钱,而大人的价钱却要RM26.50++,很贵,我们几个还因此很不爽,因为我弟弟左看右看都知道他还是个学生嘛,却还要算大人,不可能要我的弟弟出这笔对他来说是"天文数字"的钱吧,所以我们只好换地点到redbox唱了,虽然同样我的弟弟不能算是学生,也不能算小孩子,但至少这里大人的价钱只需RM17.50++, 便宜很多,而且我姐妹俩还有我两个堂妹已经同意我的弟弟只需支付RM10, 剩下的钱我们四个一起承担,所以就决定在"红盒子"了。另一个小插曲是我在麦当劳遇到雪梨他们,当时他们是为了去电脑展的。那一天就大概是这样。

后来,在那之后的隔一天,我和我的堂妹,阿廷,去倒酒,在sentosa的北京楼。隔天礼拜天,我们又连下两场,早上在johor jaya新开张的酒店,晚上同样在北京楼。最近的喜事还真多呢!不过在早上的那场,我发现tiger原来酱先进了,有自己招牌的塑料杯了。呵呵~ 哦对,补充一下,在拜六的晚上做完工后,我和堂妹一家有一块去“开会”了,俗称“喝茶”,哈哈~ 我弟弟很可怜,被我们几个“攻击”到体无完肤。呵呵~

然后,我又在统考成绩出炉的隔天,找了阿杜陪我一块到学校一起去领袖训练营,还顺便敲了阿杜一笔,哼,谁叫他考到8科A, 当然要庆祝一下嘛,哈哈~ 顺道一提,这也是我第一次驾车离开百万镇,平常,我都只是在百万镇附近兜几圈而已,虽然有些差劲,但总算还是安全的抵达学校,也回到了家里。

在青少年生活营的时候,我又约了几个团友一块儿回去看看,这次的收获颇丰富,因为从总策划的口中知道了很多团最近发生的事,比较心痛的是,多半是不好的事,不过我也明白现在我已经没办法做些什么了,所以也只能够语重心长的劝告总策划,这也是我目前唯一能做的事。

尔后,却发生了比较不幸的事,话说,我妹妹那天忘了代身份证出门,所以无法拿统考的成绩,因此我便带着他的身份证驾车到学校,谁料,就在我快安全抵达的时候,我很不小心的把车撞上了校门口的那根柱子,幸好人没什么事,不过我弟弟倒受到了小小的惊吓,而车却伤得很严重。而我爸爸倒没说什么,只告诉我以后小心点。

最后,就是我和班上的人的kukup之行了。这两天基本上我过得很开心,因为有好久的一段时间,没有和大家见面了,就算有,也很少有机会这么多人聚在一起,真的很开心。有机会的话,希望还有这样的机会和大家聚在一起。

Saturday, November 26, 2005

My results last short semester.....

yeah, actually i've got my result before my birthday, but i keep forgetting to post it up in my blog until today...

since last semester is short sem, so i only have two subjects, here are my results:
Introduction to Psychology 2: 91 (quite satisfied with that)
Introduction to Sociology: 74 (no disappointment though cant get an A here)


and i've choosen the subjects which i'm going to have next sem:
Malaysian Studies, Lifespan Development, Social Psychology, Expository Writing & Psychological Research Methods 2

Watch Harry Potter 4 this Monday.....

yeap, i watched The Goblet of Fire this Monday with my sister, brother n three cousins.

since we arrived quite late, about 2pm tat day n we need to rush back home before 7 since my sis was going to her travel tat nite, so we have to watch 3.05pm but there were not much seats for us to choose, so, we have no choice but to sit at the third rows before the screen.

after watching it, quite disappointed with the movie, becoz it has cut and changed many plots on the books, many excitement on the books just cant get from the movie, especially the Quidditch World Cup, omg, just showing for i think no last for 10 seconds, sigh.... maybe the director have no choice lor, since the books are so thick that the movie just cannot get everything showing..... n many plots have been changed, like when harry potter dreamt abt the voldertmort, the crouch junior actually is not at the scene, anyway, that's how the movie shown....

quite agree tat this movie is actually quite good for those who hvnt read the series but not for them who hv read, since there will be comparison made....

Saturday, November 19, 2005

Worked yesterday in Singapore......

唉!可怜的我,在生日过后的一天,还要去新加坡捧菜,没办法,已经答应我的伯母了~~

所以罗,因为是到新加坡的关系,所以必须要很早就准备好,大约中午十二点酱,我伯父就来载我了。唉,车上除了我,我堂妹,我伯父之外,剩下五个人都是auntie, 可想而知,车上变成了变形的巴刹。三姑六婆在那儿讨论谁在这之前赶得最辛苦,果然大家都是典型的家庭主妇,要更短的时间完成平时用一天做的家务,真可怜她们。而我和我的堂妹就在一片喧哗声中,讨论拜一一块儿看harry potter 的事情。就这样一路到了kastam,我们就自己走路过关卡了。

过了关卡,因为还要等其他还没到的auntie,我跟我堂妹就先搭巴士到kranji地铁站等他们。因为我可爱的妈咪忘了给我mrt的卡,所以我只好自己去买一张临时的卡,可是我伯母只交待我们买红山的票,我们又不肯定它的英文名字,只好问了一个好心的auntie, 才买了一张票。果然,路长在人的嘴巴上,说的一点也没错。

终于,大家到齐了。我们就出发到我们做工的地方了。到了红山,走了一段不远不近的路途,我们终于到了我们做工的地点,新加坡的真人宫。放下手上的东西后,我们就开工了,也是最辛苦的一环,排桌子和椅子,整20多个auntie还有五、六个年轻人就快手快脚地把桌子啊,椅子啊给弄好,然后就开始setting了。

那些auntie看到碟了,就一窝蜂的跑去放碟,我和堂妹,为了不要让他们扫兴,就让他们放个够,我跟她就去前面搬其他也要setting的东西给他们,好像碗啊,筷子啊,汤匙啊,酱清碟啊,还有其他杂七杂八的东西,还有三个男的也在忙着做一些比较辛苦的事,好像分杯等等。就在大家“分工合作”之下,我们终于也在五点多这样终于把一切都弄好了,总算可以休息了。真是有够累的。

然后,再换好衣服,(还是长袖的)吃过我伯母带来的晚餐后,我们就准备就绪“迎接”客人了。到了七点酱,客人陆陆续续抵达,说是晚宴,其实也不然,只是真人宫藉着这个机会标东西罢了。就这样一直到十一点酱,晚宴终于结束了。在收好碗碟之后,我们也就准备打道回府了。

由于长堤很塞车,我伯父无法进来载我们,所以我们只好选择坐德士到woodland checkpoint,再走路出境,再走路到桥中段,我伯父在那儿等我们。凄凉的是,我们等了很久才截到teksi,有一次还被人捷足先登,抢了其中一辆,最可恶的事,那个人还跟我们招手,真是可恶透了!!!是因祸得福吗,我们终于截到了一辆,还是mercedes benz的那种。那个司机也很好人,本来的teksi费是$14.95的,他只收我们$14,他大概亏了一块钱新加坡币。

就这样忙了一整天,回到家的时候,已经快一点了。唉,明天还有工要做,不晓得会不会把自己那可怜的双脚给折磨惨了............

My Birthday......

yeap, day before yesterday was my birthday... but i dun really have time to post sth here tat day....

first, i've got to thank to all my friends who had given their blessings to me on my birthday, siou ling, pei fen, peggy, pei pei, ying taat, ke yi, jun jie, yun jie, yi yong, ying ying, pei wen, isabella, wan ting, a heng, xue min,wei qiang n sam. thanks guys.... n there are 5 more ppl celebrated my birthday for me, ting mei, mehng, yih feng, kai xuan n de xin, i'm very grateful for tat, really, thanks a lot, my friends....

mmm... becoz my family dun have the tradition to celebrate birthday, so i never celebrate mine until last year, u guys celebrated for me, i felt so glad n happy to noe u all, really, thanks....

love u all, my friends~~ ^^

Wednesday, November 16, 2005

watching chicken little today~~

today, went to watch movie, chicken little with my friend, li koon. since we've have been long time to meet with each other since i'm back jb last time, 算了一下,almost 2 months liao.... sigh, now it's quite hard to meet friend liao, no like when we're in school, seeing each other almost everyday unless when it's holiday..... tat's make me more treasure the friendship among me n u all... for them whom i seldom contact with, i apologise here, very sorry abt tat....

anyway, talking abt the movie, chicken little, it's like a family movie, talking abt the kinship among a son and his father, the son wanna to have faith from his father while his father dun want to have shame from his son, eversince his son talking abt the sky is falling down, indeed, it's quite true from some pt... anyway, it has a happy ending, everyone is safe from the "attack" of the alien, n the bond between the son n his father are stronger.... ^^

after i watched the movie, ting mei just told me that she wanna watch this movie tomorrow also, poor gal, however, she told me after that we dun watch movie tomorrow liao cos i've seen it, n harry potter is first day shown, so we wanna get out from the crowd....sorry le, ting mei.....

Friday, November 11, 2005

无题.......

在朋友的部落格看到很不错的文字,就抄下来了:

走错也是一种美丽的过程

人生当中 真的有很多分歧点
需要自己去抉择 一旦作了决定
就永远也无法知道当初放弃的那条路接下来会是怎样的
以前的我们 总是会犹豫 遗憾
于是 越来越多的不完美 越来越多的情绪压抑 越来越不快乐
其实......
很多事情 错过了就没有了 错过了就是会变的
既然自己无法阻止这一切的变化 那又何必执著于其中呢?
一直相信 上帝会有这样的安排 就有祂自己的一套道理
所以每个人走的每一步路 都有它的意义存在
只是 时候未到 自己无法体验出箇中道理罢了

Thursday, November 10, 2005

working as waitress yesterday~~

mmm....becoz i dun really like to work as promoter, so when my mum said tat the tuition centre dun need a temporary teacher, i just hanging around at home.

so, when my 伯母 asked me if i wanna work yesterday, i just agreed since i hv nothing to do at home, except watching tv, reading books n on9, wat more important is tat i can earn little bit $$$, hehe... :p

then, i went to tat restaurant at abt 5.30pm since it is quite near to my house with my cousins. aiz, poor me, the captain put me n my cousin in the tables tat which is the farest away from the kitchen, so we need to walk a long long way to serve the meals to the customers.... it's been a long time since i worked at aug, so, my legs are very very 酸痛.

yesterday is someone's wedding, poor couple, yesterday is rainning all day when they were married. n i only found out it's 子威的亲戚's wedding when i saw his mom and brothers walking in.... aiz, hate to meet someone familiar to me when i work, coz it's quite strange meeting in those scenario....after tat, worse, i even saw my student there.... aiz, maybe buddha is punishing me for not praying bah~~~

then, the dinner ends at, i think abt 11.00pm, 收拾完残局后,we went back home with RM33 each person liao... aiz, quite little the payment, nv mind lar, i also wanna to pass my time only....

tat's all my working yesterday, except i earn RM33, i just have my tired body n mind n having met few ppl tat i dun wanna meet when i work.... tat's all.....

Tuesday, November 08, 2005

finally, can on9 today liao

eversince i back to home, i try to on9, but just cant, aiz, dunno if the line hates me... :<

finally, i can on9 today, just wanna write to let u guys noe only... hehe....